Sorry if I seemed to confuse anyone with my last post. Here's the story:
With our first two we did not find out the gender before they announced it upon their arrival. This seems to drive most of our family and friends crazy! (Sorry... but it is really fun to be surprised like that! You should try it some time.)
For this child, we were thinking of doing the same thing, but decided since our 20 week ultrasound was so close to Christmas, we would find out on Christmas. So we had the ultrasound technician write it on some paper and seal it in an envelope. This envelope now sits under our tree in a pretty little package and is waiting for us to open it on Christmas, where our child will announce the gender. This way it will be just our little family, all together, and not in some cold room where I am awkwardly lying on a table and some complete stranger tells us the good news...
So that's what's going on in our little world... this is our compromise to all our loved ones who so desperately want to know if we have a little boy or a little girl for them to love.
Now, don't sneak in and find the gift and open it before we do.
That would hurt my feelings.